Wow – it’s been one hell of a year!
I haven’t posted on this blog in a long time. I’m not sure why; a combination of restlessness and busy-ness, maybe. I’m sorry it’s taken me so long to come back, but here I am! As Sam Seaborn said to CJ Craig, “Let’s move past the fact that you’re a little late to the party and just embrace the fact that you showed up at all.” 😛
2010: Ireland, summer, and fall
At the beginning of 2010, I left for the city of Dublin in the Republic of Ireland. What followed was one of the most extraordinary, challenging, amazing, inspiring, and fun experiences of my life. It’s hard to pin down the best part…
- Going shopping for books at Dubray’s Bookstore on Grafton Street?
- Hitting up the weekly farmer’s outdoor market in Temple Bar?
- Seeing a play at the Abbey Theatre in Dublin’s Chinatown district?
- Touring the Guinness Factory – two Americans and an Australian, no less?
- Speaking of Australians, making awesome dinner parties every week with half the Commonwealth?
- Classes on Irish history, folklore, and religion?
- Working in the National Archives in the department of Irish Folklore?
- Exploring the seaside town of Howth, climbing around a centuries-old abbey, and bringing home a fresh salmon?
- Checking out the cute, funky, fun town of Malahide, in which the local castle was less fun than the awesome town?
- Hiking around the ancient monastic site in Glendalough and taking pictures in front of a pristine mountain lake?
- Kayaking and mountain biking in Killarney National Park?
- Staying in a hostel/bar in Cork, including drinking with the local Irish kids?
- Biking around Inis Mor, the largest of the Aran Islands, off the west coast of Ireland?
- Hanging around Galway, sampling the local Italian fare and fish-n-chips?
- Wading in the Mediterranean off the coast of Barcelona while eating an ice cream cone?
- Climbing to the tops of Barcelona cathedrals?
- Sharing a huge frying pan of paella in Spain?
- Seeing the Sistine Chapel?
- Seeing La Pieta?
- Wandering around the Vatican’s St. Peter’s Basilica?
- The best spinach and tomato pizza we’ve ever had, from a street vendor in a backstreet in Rome?
- The Coliseum?
- That time we found that amazing little restaurant just off the Piazza Navona on a glittery, rainy night?
- That amazing hostel room with the insane blue bathroom and huge linen curtains?
- Napping in front of the Notre Dame with the pigeons?
- French Onion soup in an amazing little cafe not far from the Notre Dame?
- Exploring Montmartre and checking out the hippies?
- Pigalle subway station?
- The Champs Elyseees and that awesome McDonalds? (Yeah, we went to a McDonalds in Paris…)
- The view from the Sacre Couer?
Well, looking at all that, it’s really impossible to say! But after a whirlwind adventure around Ireland and Europe, we were happy to be back and settled into familiar territory in the Midwest.
In Summer 2010 I started working for the Interfaith Youth Leadership Coalition, doing youth programming and funding/development work. Chris started working full-time as a tech support and networks intern for Wells Fargo in downtown Minneapolis. We couldn’t have been luckier!
Our luck only continued.
Fall 2010 was an amazing semester for me. I completed a full courseload with some of the most challenging classes I’ve ever had, including classical Greek; I kept my research afloat and applied to the National Conference of Undergraduate Research; I had an AMAZING start to my interfaith social justice campaign; I enjoyed a great semester facilitating weekly Multifaith Alliance sessions; and I got to participate in some great reading and reflection with the Mahle program. Meanwhile, Chris made an excellent professional choice and stayed on fulltime with Wells Fargo. He is currently building transfer applications to computer science continuing education programs, where he will be finishing up his degree with WAY better credentials and industry standards.
2011: New beginnings…
In January I’m going to be taking a J-Term course, then I’m going to be completing a full courseload and my degree in one fell swoop. With any luck, I’ll be completing my senior honors thesis, presenting in Ithaca, New York, and defending my thesis before a defense committee. Plus, I’ll be wrapping up the Better Together campaign by holding monthly interfaith meals and volunteering/donations for free-case refugee resettlement in Minnesota. I’ll be finishing up my fourth year as a student leader with Multifaith Alliance [:(] And I’ll participate in the Mahle lecturer programming with Sara Miles!
By May, I’m going to graduate from Hamline, and just a month later, we’ll be getting married at the Minnesota Renaissance Festival grounds in Shakopee, Minnesota. Our wedding is going to be a beautiful little afternoon affair, full of blues and yellows, whimsy, and fun! We’re going to have some great clothes, yummy food, and the best friends and family anyone could ask for!
We’re planning a honeymoon road trip around the country (Australia and New Zealand just wasn’t in the budget, I’m afraid). Afterwards, we’ll be closing up shop, packing all of our belongings into a U-Haul, and moving to one of three cities: New York, Boston, or Chicago. In September I’ll be starting a master’s program at a theological seminary or divinity school, and Chris will be starting the last two years of his computer science degree. We’ll share a cute apartment, our cat, and — God willing — a family.
I am unbelievably fortunate. By birth, circumstance, choice, and hard work, I have a whole host of assets that I can barely even comprehend. I’m a young, able-bodied woman, successful in my career, with a great home, a wonderful family, and a close-knit circle of friends. I’ve got the best partner in the world — who else gets to spend every day with their best friend, and always find something new to enjoy? I’ve had a goddamn amazing year and look forward to only more and better!
But like everyone, I’ve had some struggles. Balance and mindfulness are particular concerns for me. I’m a natural workaholic and often get so wrapped up in what I’m doing that I do not focus on my home, family, and friends.
I’ve worked hard to change that over the past year, and in the process, I have identified some core values/nourishments I want to shore up. In particular, I feel most dedicated to and most nourished by my relationship with God/religion, my relationship with my mind and body, and my relationship with my partner/family/friends.
So, this next year, I’m going to be embarking on a 12-month long “happiness project”! My happiness project will formalize these three values through 6 months’ worth of fun projects to enjoy every month, then spend 6 months developing these projects to fulfillment! Deep cleaning the apartment, scrapbooking, knitting, perfecting my bread recipe, getting back into yoga again — all of these are examples of some small projects I’ll be developing over the year. I can’t wait! I can post more on this later, I think.
Anyway, 2010 and 2011 have been amazing, and I can’t wait for the journey. Happy holidays to all!